“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you”
Really struck by the sermon on Sunday given by Lawrence at Epicenter. This church is shaking me up and I think that’s a good thing.
From the sermon:
We live in a society where we don’t like to ask for favors from other people. We don’t like to ask for bargains, we don’t like to ask for promotions or for things. Personally, I don’t ask because I don’t like the thought of burdening someone else. I don’t ask because I like to think of myself as being self-sufficient. And of course, I don’t ask because I risk being rejected.
One of the most humiliating moments is when I walked around LAX back in college looking for someone who had a motorola phone charger. I had to contact someone I only met a few times to pick me up and unfortunately her number was on my phone, which had run out of batteries and I forgot to pack a charger. I ended up spotting an older man using the same model of phone. He was extremely suspicious of my request, but reluctantly lent me his charger to power my phone and allow me to make the call.
“Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?”
The biggest difference between those who get things and those who don’t is that those who get things generally asked for it. And yet, out of a self-destructive pride, I still don’t want to ask even though I know this.
Lawrence spoke about how the bible was written in a middle eastern culture of asking, of this expectation of asking for things. I think of my former roommate who with her husband engaged in such riled up sale when purchasing a used car from a Persian salesman that in the end, the salesman was delighted and threw in a handbook with the car just because he was graced with such a formidable opponent.
“Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think…”
When we ask people big things, we present this posture where we acknowledge their influence and power. Yet too often, we ask God for petty things. In doing so, it is almost like coming before the president and asking if he could do us the favor of validating our parking. The only difference is that we’re coming before the sovereign king.
I think of two questions G asked our small group girls over dinner: what are your prayer requests for the upcoming year? (These are the petty requests we all have, that are safe to ask because they don’t require much faith) Ok now more interestingly, what are your impossible prayer requests for the upcoming year? (These are the impossible requests because there is no foreseen humanly way possible to attain them. They require dependence on an all-powerful and generous God)
Sometimes we’re afraid of asking God for the wrong thing. Maybe I’m being stubborn to ask God that R and I can have a restored relationship for example. Maybe that comes from a selfish heart that is unable to trust God. Even so, God can handle our poor requests. He’s God after all. Through the process of asking, He can mold our requests and we can learn something about His character–but it begins with asking.
“If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”
Finally, it seems like a big thing to ask for is the Holy Spirit, which is meant to convict us of sin, guarantee us of our salvation, empower us to live as Christians as the Church, and propel us beyond the walls of the church.
And all of this begins with the invitation to ask.